Showing posts with label Jacob. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jacob. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Motherhood- 3rd grade field trip....

The other day my only son came running in the house. He was lit up and excited. They had rescheduled his field trip (the first was rained out) and it was next week. The disappointment from the first failure was tough on him so I shared his happiness. Not long in to talking with him though I discovered the true source of his excitement was not simply because the field trip had been rescheduled but because he had decided that I could accompany him on the new one this next week. In the years I have had school age children, six years if we are counting I have found ways to help in the classroom including teaching art, class room parties, correcting homework. All of which I don't do for the teacher, I do it for my kids. The look on their face or their excitement is worth the sacrifice. I, however, have never attended a field trip (unless you count the twins at preschool). Mostly its because I have always had younger children they don't allow to come along. Sure I could have swapped babysitting but my older kids seemed to accept my inability to go so I continued to volunteer at the school in other capacities.... Until this one.

So I said yes! We were scheduled to head up to a Garden I was familiar with so that didn't seem to difficult. Proving to swap the twins proved to be hard on this particular day but in the end a good friend took them.

So yesterday I was running behind after dropping the twins off and went to change into good walking shoes as I knew I could expect two hours walking around the garden and the weather was again unsettled. This is where things went down hill. My gym shoes were no where to be found and I didn't have to look much to know where they were... they were on my sixth graders feet! So I grabbed my boots (which are high heeled and very uncomfortable and ran out the door. My plan was to run in the school and force the culprit to switch me shoes. This would have worked except when I got to the school the previous written planned had changed from eating at the school to shuffling on the bus immediately and heading to a park. So off we went.


I was worried about walking the garden in my boots but the face above was worth the pain.




 Upon arriving at the garden I was ready to get off the bus :)

So we grabbed a poncho and headed out.  We walked through the beautiful Daffodils, past the paved pathways, and out of the garden and headed into the wet, soggy foothills. 
It was muddy. It was drizzing. It was cold and it was steep hills!

I like to hike and like to be fit but I was completely unprepared for this kind of hiking.  I began to contemplate turning back but my pride was hard to conquer.
So I kept going.  It got more muddy and more uneven and it was difficult.  I rolled my ankles several times.  Try walk in grass in high heeled boots. Then imagine walking uphill, downhill, through mud, rocks, uneven ground all the while worrying if the rain increased there is no way I would make it down at all.
It got a lot muddier.  At this point I decided I had to go back or I was going to fall, get hurt, I just couldn't make it.  We had been hiking about an hour and it was here that discovered it was a loop.  I was half way in.  Jacob had ran back to check on me and when I told him I had to go back he was worried and wanted to help me go back too.  This tugged my heart strings ....  I would do anything for him to have his Mom to do this with him.  So I continued.  We passed other groups.. all covered in mud.  All I could think was all those shoes ruined.  Wouldn't other Mom's be mad?   Some kids had ditched their shoes and were barefoot (it was cold too).


Here we are before heading down the steep slopes.  I'll be honest I almost cried. It hurt that much and was that hard but I made it!

 Those high heeled boots are going in the trash!  As for the sixth grader what is the appropriate punishment?  If I had any idea we were doing a two hour hike through the mud and hills I would have absolutely switched her shoes and made the whole entire bus wait.... and I would have had those to throw away too.  But I would have had a lot less pain.

So my first field trip experience wasn't exactly glowing but Jacob's face was.   We stopped for Sundae's and McDonald's and he expressed gratitude to me for doing it all.  That almost makes it worth it.

Thursday, June 03, 2010

Baptism

At age 8 in our church children are given the choice to join the church and be baptized. They are then interviewed with the Bishop about what it all means. We talked to Jacob about this step for the last year. He was excited and ready for this time.    I am so proud that Jacob made this choice and took it so seriously.  His baptism was a great day surrounded with people who loved him and the spirit was very strong in the room.

Before the big day and right after his interview with the Bishop I took him out to get a photo for his program. He got a new suit for the special day!

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Baptism day May 1st, 2010

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After the baptism we had a brunch. It turned out so nice.  I was given so much support from the Women in my life. They all brought a lot of food and made a lot of effort to help me. I am very lucky!  We were also very lucky to have Alan’s brother's family fly in for the occasion.  Both Grandma’s gave talks and Lindsey sang a beautiful song with her Aunt and her friend.

 

Jacob I still remember the day I was baptized. I don’t think I knew then what a gift I was getting. Being a member of the church has been my greatest blessing.  My knowledge of the truthfulness of the this Gospel and my relationship with Jesus Christ have truly provided me with all of my most precious blessings. When I alone and in need of comfort I have been able to develop a relationship where I know my prayers are heard and through this I never feel I am alone or that someone doesn’t understand.   If you live right and follow the Lord I know that you will have a life filled with happiness. I love you!

Mommy

A birthday BBQ and A day at the movies…

No one told me some rules when I began having kids. One of them being.. set a pattern for big friend birthday parties and stick to them. Like every other year or so Otherwise you will be giving tons of kid parties every single year. I give tons of birthday parties a year because I set the expectations high before I knew the price I would pay (literally).

 

To kick of Jacob’s actual birthday we hosted a bbq at our house with family.  With both sides of our family it made for a lot of people and a lot of fun!  We are very lucky to have so many people who love Jacob and who spoiled him!

 

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Things were really busy around Jacob’s birthday.  He had determined a while ago that he wanted to take his friends to the movies…  The week before I began looking up movie times and they were not posted. I checked in daily and they still were not up. Finally Tuesday (party was for Saturday) they were up. I whipped out invitation and sent them out Wednesday (which wasn’t much notice).  Here is my “worst Mom ever” moment or so it felt at the time (I have a few of these behind me by now).  Fast forward to Friday (day before the party)… I had three big things I was doing that day during one of them I got a call on my cell from one of Jacob’s favorite friends mom’s.  She informed me that another child was having a birthday party at the same time with the same movie and had sent out the invite first.  What?  I was sick.  I couldn’t think what I would do?  So I began calling the boys Mom’s on my cell phone seeing if anyone could come.  First call was a no.  Slowly though I got three confirmations of coming. I figured that was enough.   I felt like the worst Mom ever when I had to break Jacob’s heart and tell him that two of his fav friends couldn’t come. He quickly recovered and thanked me for trying so hard.

 

The day of the party was Alan’s race (yes I am so behind on blogging) so it made for one crazy morning.  We went to see Diary of a wimpy kid, which is a delightful movie. 

 

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After the party was over I wasn’t sorry it was small. 5 boys can get pretty wild!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Jacob's Slideshow

I made this slide slow of my Jacob growing up for his baptism. It makes me emotional every time I watch. Time passes so quickly. Jacob is such a sweet, kind and loving child. I am so blessed.






Monday, April 12, 2010

Eight

Happy Birthday to Jacob!




Eight things I love about you...

1-Your kind.
2-Your handsome.
3-You want to do what is right.
4-You are a great brother.
5-You are cheerful and happy.
6-You love sports.
7-You are affectionate.
8-You show grattitude.

Eight things you like to do at Eight...
1-Byu
2-PSP
3-Being Outside. You are outside rain, snow, or shine until dark everyday.
4-Sports Soccer,Football, Basketball, diving. You have been on all these teams this year! Whew!
5-Foods-Strognauf, Cheeseburgers, Bacon.
6- Love's Subway and In and Out.
7-Play play play. 
8-Movies






Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Wordful Wednesday- motherhood

Being a mother has made me conquer many of my fears and find out I had ones I never knew I had. Like the fear of your child being sad, sick or hurt, or left out from a friend ,and many more but I digress. One of the fears I have always had was of surgery. I was terrified of the thought. The cutting. The recovery. You get the idea. You can imagine that 6 hrs into a difficult labor that being told you would need a emergency c-section was not easy for me to take. My reaction was so strong my doctor actually thought I was refusing the c-section. Which I wasn't because I am a mother and mothers would do anything for their babies. So I cried and then I did it. I was terrified. For my baby. For myself.

In labor (before the bad news)

Here I am with my newborn baby. He was safe. He was beautiful. It hurt worse than I imagined and the recovery was harder than I would have ever wished but oh was he worth it. Staples, Scars and pain invaded our first weeks together.

Little did I know that later I would have to give birth to high risk twins. Who couldn't be born any other way but c-section. That a surgery that once terrified me was the least of my worries and a day I prayed I could make it too, with two live babies. That surgery seemed easy to me then.

Yes, for me Motherhood is learning that I am stronger than I thought. I can do things I never imagined possible and that I would know love greater than I could have dreamed. Sometimes the thing or things you are most scared of bring the greatest blessings. While walking that road is often difficult getting to the other side is sweet indeed.


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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Diving class

A few weeks ago we signed Jacob up for diving. The first day he saw the tower I think the thought of jumping off it terrified him.

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It will still take work till he is comfortable. 

He is doing great with his diving.

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Diving is at 8am so its a early activity.

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So we do hair why we watch and we cheerlead.

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and the girls have to stare at this and never dip a toe in. As it’s closed at 8am-9am.

Everywhere we go we know where all the bathrooms are and we test all their sinks.  

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It’s been a great activity and I really think its pushing Jacob.  Having it at 8am has worked out well too. It’s done before we ever need to be anywhere or do anything and it gets us up and going for the day.